WHAT SHOULD YOU DO WHEN CHANGE OCCURS AND WHAT CRYSTALS WILL HELP
This month I would like to talk to you about change. I know we have touched on this before but I feel compelled to write about it again.
Change can come in many forms, a change of Job, a new house, new school, new lifestyle, even health issues can bring about change, events that happen to us will undoubtedly bring changes into our lives through the effects that it has on us and our thinking.
Change is inevitable things are changing constantly in your world everyday, some are so small that you don't even notice them other are large and have quite an impact on your life. So as change is there and happening you need to learn how to deal with it to make your life easier happier and as stress free as possible. ( I won't say completely stress free as most of us never seem to quite manage that, although we keep striving and that what's most important). Below are some questions that you may wish to address when change occurs in you life.
What should we do when changes occurs. Well there are many things that you need to look at.
Is this something that you have planned or something that is unexpected?
If it is something that you have planned then you will have taken into account a lot of the things that will occur, but there is always something that may have slipped past you in the planning stages. (A small aside here when you are planning changes you will find that Green Aventurine, Amethyst and Sodalite Healing Crystals will help there are many others but these crystals are wonderful for the planning stages).
If it is something unexpected then you need to look at why these changes are occurring and why they are happening now. Chrysoprase is a great crystal to use here as it provides you with personal insight to the reasons for the change, Howlite healing crystals will help to keep you calm through changes that are happening, and I would definitely recommend Rhodonite Crystals for their healing properties related to keeping you calm as it will help to heal emotional shock which is quite likely to accompany unexpected change and also for the panic that can on occasions be present with unexpected changes.
Will this change have a great or small impact on your life?
This is a very important question to address, sometimes if the impact is small you may need to do nothing more than acknowledge the changes accept them and move on. You can use Blue Lace Agate healing crystals for this and yes I know that it is now very hard to get but I have a feeling that there will be new deposits found very soon, this is a wonderful crystal and I find it hard to believe that its wonderful healing abilities will be lost to us especially when they are so badly needed.(just my opinion).
Now if the changes are major ones then there will be many things to address, like how to cope with this change there will be challenges to face that is for sure, nothing major ever comes without some sort of challenge or difficulty so here I would recommend that you use Pink Tourmaline for the healing properties that it brings, wisdom to help find the right path to follow, it also brings peace and relaxation which are both sorely needed in times of major change. Grossular Garnet is a wonderful crystal to have when you are being challenged, Garnet (just the plain variety if you like)is very good in a crisis it will help you find a solution to the problems a way out if you like this crystals healing properties also include providing you with courage in the face of challenges.
Will it effect those around you?
This is also important to address, change very rarely effects one person it has a flow on effect to those around us, for instance if you change houses then your family will be effected children's school perhaps your partners job, family members being further away. If the changes are of another type that say effect your personality then you also need to consider how this will effect those around you, you must remember that just because you have moved on does not mean that everyone around has moved on too some may not be ready for change and you need to consider this. In some instances you can just move on if the people around you are not important to you or you feel that you and they are moving in different directions(this does not mean that you have to cut them out of your life, just that your decisions will not have as great an impact on them as they will on others, I have people that have moved out of my life that were once a big part of it and that is fine because we helped each other and enriched each others lives and then it was time to move on. We do not always keep the same people in our lives continually and I do not mean to say that you have to cut someone off at the knees and no longer speak to them just that you are no longer as close as you once were).
If the people around you that are effect will continue to be in your life then you need to consider how these changes will effect them, you need to talk to them and find out how these changes are effecting them and what can be done about them, sometimes things cannot be changed immediately but just letting the other people know that you are considering their feelings, wants and needs is a great help to them and it will also help you with the changes that you are going through as well. A few crystals that may be of help here would be Smokey Quartz Crystals will help open the channels of communication so that you and others can make themselves understood it also helps to remove negativity that can sometimes block clear communication and understanding. Lapis Lazuli crystals with their healing abilities of honesty, compassion and harmony is a great crystal to use in any area of communication. You will also need compassion in these situations as the changes that others are going through will be having a profound effect on them and you need to understand and allow for this, I would recommend that you use Angelite Crystals for it's has wonderful healing properties of compassion and giving us the ability to accept change especially that which we cannot change. Another healing crystal that will help in this situation is Bloodstone it is a wonderful grounding crystal and most people will need grounding it helps to banish confusion and enhances decision making.
Can you control these changes that are happening?
Well yes you can control what is happening or at least your reactions to the changes, if you have made the decision to change yourself then you should be in complete control of what is happening, but if these changes have been forced upon you then you may not be able to change the situation but you can definitely change how you react to the changes. You can control the way the change effects you and those around you whether it be in a positive or negative way, your responses will decide if the changes are pleasant or not and if the change is something that you can do nothing about then a positive attitude will make the situation so much more bearable. If you have brought about these changes then you will need to be committed to change and Chrysoprase Crystals will help here its healing properties give you the ability to view new situations with an openness that will help you see the benefits instead of just the negatives, it also helps you to stop being judgemental and also helps with commitment issues. Siderite is the all time favorite of mine for commitment whether to change, your work or any other areas of your life that need you to make a genuine commitment. You will also need the confidence to embrace these changes and that is where Hematite healing crystals will come into their own, they help you to sort things out in your mind so that you know were you are going and what is happening, helps to dissolve any negativity that you maybe carrying it will also help keep you grounding during times of difficult change and it will help to bring harmony and peace to you and those around you. I would also recommend Sunstone as it is a happy crystal it brings joy and good nature to all situations and this is essential when change is occurring, it will help you to empower yourself in any situation and provides optimism and enthusiasm which will greatly benefit you in any situation where changes are happening.
Should you get help or try to manage alone?
This depends on the situation and the person involved, if it is physical issue then you may need to get professional help i.e. Doctor, Physiatrist, Counselors. If it is say financial then you may need to see a Bank Manager, Financial Advisor. Sometimes just talking to a friend maybe all that is needed. This is a difficult question to answer as each individual is different just keep in mind that you have not failed if you need to ask for help and that there is nothing wrong with getting advice, we would all be a little bit better off if we talked to others about our problems, you see I have a theory that sometimes we just need to voice our concerns and the answers will come to us after all we do have all the answers we need inside us we just need to look and ask. You do not even have to talk to another persons I have found that just talking to myself out loud voicing my concerns and problems is enough. Yes I know that they say talking to yourself is the first sign of madness and the second is answering yourself well I must be well on the way then as I do this all the time but hey I would rather have my madness than someone else's sanity any day, and if this revelation changes how you view the information that I provide for you in a negative manner then I am sorry but that's just the way I am and have always been and it serves me well, I sincerely hope that you will still stay with me and benefit from what I have learned over the years.
I know that this article has been a long one but again once I start to write it just seems to flow and who am I to get in the way of that. I hope you find this article enjoyable.
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Colleen The Crystal Dragon
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